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The last  days have been rough. I attend a CMA group and Open Art studio on Wednesdays. The relationship with this guy is not working. Let’s call him Craig. I’ve noticed how my views on life and optimism have changed over the past month. My drive and desire to function and move on with my life fluctuates irrationally. [...]

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I have to kick out two articles a  week. Honestly this feels taxing. I haven’t researched anything. I’m not following any major event and pop culture entertainments make me angry. I get so annoyed by the various House Wives, reality D- F listers and the kardashians. I mean how is that relevant to my life? Pop culture [...]

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The livelihood of most of the inhabitants on the North American continent from a broad prospective is that most of us live a middle class lifestyle. Without regard to the recession, being just barely comfortable only shadowing security. But this is from the vantage point of individuals with college degrees. Being in your mid-twenties and [...]

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So I said that I was going to commit to writing everyday. A literary diet of funky syntax. No fasting and continual editing. Only raw thoughts ready for mental mastication. What shall I give to you?  What format do I follow? How much should be shared and how little do I hold onto? One thing [...]

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The other day I meet a Guy. We had a lovely time. Funny thing is, the scene reminded me a movie from a LoGo film. Two attractive, articulate black men chuckling in the dark walking in glow below the moon light.  I’m lost in the direction I was going with this. I can’t believe that I [...]

While in Florida a few things became aware to me. For instance, I know that it is not where you are from that determines how far you can go in life. Laurence Fishburne the actor that played Morpheus in the Matrix and lead in Othello is from Augusta, Georgia. Morpheus, just the thought of it is baffling and inspiring [...]

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I have a considerably good life in New York. Walking the city in tailored clothes discovering new events and revenues. After years of being mindful of what I eat and being health conscious I have a body that I can embrace. I am extremely articulate and cultured meeting guys that adore me and want to give me [...]

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There is a saying…That you don’t know what you’ve got untill it’s gone. Over the last few months as my life became progressively better I begin to see only what I did not have and think about things I have not done. Instead of being grateful I was regretful. Living  with a disease that talks to me in [...]

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Write honest from my heart. It’s been 11 days I don’t have a sponsor. I’ve overcome a number or obstacles. Mainly i’m facing life on life terms. Can’t say I feel ampted and welcoming but I do hold on and walk forward. You never acquire more in life than you can mentally and physically sustain…. Don’t know [...]

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Comes to the light, comes to the light….Everything, comes to the light. -Jill Scott The person I want to be; The truth that I will be. You become who you should be. The truth comes to you. You can make it fade but it will not sail away. If everything comes to the light then [...]

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